I saw a story on the news this weekend that said that organizers all across the country are having a difficult time getting traditional Memorial Day Parades going because the WWII vets are dying off and the Korean and Vietnam vets...well they implied they were a little bitter about the way they were treated and parading now seems hypocritical somehow. The organizers are turning to Gulf 1 and 2 vets but find they are too busy being...well...busy. VFW and American Legion posts are not doing well, either.
From conversations I hear around, it seems that a lot of younger folks don't really know what this week end is all about. They are confusing Veterans Day with Memorial Day. I know...recent presidential guidance was to include all vets in this weeks celebrations, but I still feel it is important to recognize the purpose of this holiday. I can sum it up pretty easily. You've seen the T-shirt with the Vietnam War Memorial statues and the phrase..."All gave some...Some gave all". Well, Veteran's Day is for the first group who gave some...Memorial Day is for the second group who gave all.
I don't want to rain on any parades...or picnics...or bar-b-q's...I am all for having fun, too. I plan on sacrificing a pig on the burning altar myself. Just urging you to keep a thought somewhere over this long weekend for the second group...the ones who won't be showing up at the bar-b-q. And if you pray, or contemplate your navel, or wish upon a star...please say thanks to whatever greater power you recognize for those who were willing to go and do...to keep it possible for us to camp and boat and party and all the other things we can do freely.
And one last thought. There are more people who gave their life for their country than those who died. Those fresh faced privates went off on the adventure of their young lives and came back without the freshness. Some. like my bhuddist non violent name caller friend came back wrecked...they gave up what ever life there might have been for them before they got ruined and had to live different one. Another group just stayed behind and kept the uniform on...living in crummy quarters...making lousy pay...moving every couple years...putting up with a lifestyle that no sane person would endure...giving up whatever civilian life they might have had...being the sharp end of foreign policy for the suits in DC...living a life of "practice sacrifice" until a real one comes along.
So to all the loved ones of those who fell...my heartfelt thanks for what you have given...and to all who serve...as well...may you stay in the first group.