OPINION
There I Was...#85
Published on March 10, 2009 By Big Fat Daddy In Misc

I wrote about living in Texas before. We found ourselves, after some minor drama, living in a two-room shack by the highway in a town that was pure culture shock to me. I had been influenced by Virginians around Norfolk in my "formative" years...living in an institutionalized bigotry...learning by absorption. But Lampasas, Texas was something altogether different. In Lampasas, bigotry was a decision, meaness a choice, and intolerance was a matter of pride. In my life, Norfolk and Lampasas were separated by more than twenty years, years spent in multi-cultural communities all over the States and parts of the rest of the world. I had some rough edges that had had to be filed down when I first joined the Army, but by the time I arrived in Texas I was more influenced by shared experiences with soldiers of all races, creeds and religions than I was by the good folks in Norfolk.

Lampasas was a small town that reminded me more of the fictional town of Sparta from the movie "In the Heat of the Night" than anything I envisioned about Texas. The town center was a square block with the county courthouse in the middle. The rest of the town radiated out from there. The Dairy Queen was the social center of town (there was a "gentlemen's club" out by the spillway, a private establishment that charged enough for membership to keep the undesirables out. It was the only place in the county where you could buy an alcoholic drink; the county was dry).   The richest man in town drove an old beat up Ford pick up and wore Levis and a denim jacket and owned as many oil wells as he did cattle.

The Sheriff was a pot-bellied, Stetson-wearing, tobacco-chewing or cigar-chomping (alternatively), mountain of a man who wore cowboy boots with silver tips on the toes and carried a pistol with NOTCHES ON THE HANDLE. I made the mistake of getting on his bad side right away. I had purchased a new Plymouth in Germany through the PX. When I registered it the first time, the clerk at the registration office in Heidelberg felt like writing the whole VIN was too much trouble so she only entered the last six or seven digits on the form. When I got to Texas, I needed to get Texas plates (they don't let you drive around on USAREUR plates for long) and that required a trip to the courthouse. The clerk looked at my papers and directed me to the Sheriff's office to get the VIN verified. In the Sheriff's office, I apparently interupted a really good BS session. While the Sheriff looked over my USAREUR rgistration form, one of the other guys asked me how I liked the Old West. I foolishly pointed out that it wasn't too bad, considering I had to drive 1500 miles EAST to get there. That was the beginning of sorrows. The Sheriff gave me a sidelong glare, then told me there weren't enough numbers in my VIN; couldn't be right. We walked out to the car to check it out. I explained about the clerk in Heidelberg, but the Sheriff wasn't interested. I finally gave up arguing, swallowed my pride, and pleaded for mercy. That did it. The "Power Sneer" appeared and with the promise that I would definitely "owe him one", he signed off on my papers.

I went into the clerk's office to complete my actions. The Sheriff was out in the hall talking to someone about a guy who had moved into the "Messcan" side of town, speculating that he must think he was one or maybe he just liked wallowin' around wi' em. There was some laughter and more comments of an unflattering nature. I paid my fees, collected my plates, and headed for the door. The Sheriff's conversation stopped as I passed and just as I was at the door, he gave me that sneer again and a tap to the brim of his Stetson that resembled a salute but bore no vestige of respect in it. It was weeks later that I realized that the subject of that conversation about the boy who lived in the "Messcan" part of town was me. For the rest of the time that I lived in Lampasas, I had numerous vists and conversations with one deputy or another; car too loud, took off too fast, safety checks, dog was scaring the neighbor kids, etc, etc. Turns out that the "Messcans" weren't anymore fond of my living in their midst than the white folk were. There was some other unpleasantnesses, apparently it was ok for he little kids next door to throw rocks and tease my dog but it was not ok for my dog to bark at them for it. A deputy told me that a neighbor of mine said he would shoot my dog if I couldn't control him. I reminded the deputy that under Texas law, it was a felony to kill an animal valued at more than $250.00, so if the neighbor shot my dog the deputy would have to arrest him and I would press charges. Further endearing me to the local law enforcement.

But in Texas there is one language that everyone understands. I went out and bought a 30-06 rifle, sat out on the front porch and spent some time cleaning it up real good. The neighbor kids stayed away from the dog and I didn't get anymore visits from the law. I still got stopped occasionally. But we moved to Copperas Cove, a town about 15 miles closer to post, just a couple months later. I was really glad to be out of Lampasas.

Looking back now, I can see that a lot of the problems I had there were my own fault. I have always been a bit of a smart ass and I really don't like authority figures who wield that authority unrighteously. We had some good times there; swimming in the spillway, people-watching while slurping Dr Pepper and Root beer freezes at the DQ, and just sharing time with friends. But the bigotry was not my imagination and my smart mouth didn't create it or aggravate it. It was a strange place, a strange time. A friend of ours had problems with the locals because he was Cuban (when he was referred to as Mexican, he would passionately insist he was cuban) and happened to be married to a girl who appeared to be white (she was of Cuban ancestry but had no accent at all). Their baby, who had normal vitals right up to birth was born dead.  She felt that they had delayed labor unnecessarily and no reasonable explanation was ever given. Of course, they could have talked to the Sheriff about it...the one with the notches on his pistol.

 


Comments
on Mar 10, 2009

I discovered something of a similar nature in my husband's home town in southern Mississippi.  Coming from further north, and being educated in public schools, I figured all the racism in the south was practiced on the white side.  So, intent to prove I was NOT a racist, I tried to do business in a few places dedicated to the black community (the black grocery store and dry cleaners).

It was a rude awakening.  Money does not always talk.

 

on Mar 10, 2009

Oh, yes.  In the small town South (gotta capitolize it for the yokels), racism was prevalent on both sides.

Lampasas could be any small town in rural Alabama or Mississippi, even today.  My father-in-law is from Clinton, MS.  Grew up there at the tale end of the Great Depression and all through the 40's and 50's.  Some of the stories he can tell will just curl your hair.  Then again, in the same small town, some of the tales of generous compassion (across racial lines, even) will just make your heart weep.

Definitely a time and place of interesting dichotomy

on Mar 10, 2009

Over the years I have come across some pretty surprising behavior in places I would never have dreamed were "like that".  Lampasas was an eye-opener for me because I had spent most of my life in Navy housing areas or in east San Diego County.  Maybe there are a couple more articles in the works here.  I was no sparkling example of equal thinking in my youth but in my worst days I couldn't hold the light for these guys to go by.  And as for the compassion issue, I guess it is extended to local folks, but I never saw any extended my way...well, maybe from my landlady...maybe.

Tova, I think one of the motivators for black proprietors to avoid your business is fear, sometimes there be repercussions for doing bidness wit a blonde lady...from BOTH sides of the issue.

on Mar 10, 2009

Tova, I think one of the motivators for black proprietors to avoid your business is fear, sometimes there be repercussions for doing bidness wit a blonde lady...from BOTH sides of the issue.

Well they didn't seem scared when they cussed me to pieces for having the audacity to come in.  Then when they heard my lack of accent, they eased up a little in a totally superior way.

After all, yankees don't know no betta.

on Mar 10, 2009

After all, yankees don't know no betta.

Yeah, but they talk cute.  It came as a real shock to me to discover that some blacks were prejudiced against whites.  My first thought was (keep in mind I was quite young), "What have they got to be prejudiced about?"  Ahhh the foibles of yoot.

on Aug 25, 2009

i'm from lampasas texas. i'm cousins with the current shierif, and several promanate  upstanding citizens there.  ihere  went to school there. i loved that  little town. wanted to live there forever. but having thought about it over the years, i'm glad i left. i never knew i was brown untill my cousin told me. third grade,kickball,  she told me i couldn't play with them anymore cause i was not white.....all my family is white. except me.  i know the issues are still there in lampasas,just like they were all those yrs ago for you.  i don't go there anymore. i pay my land taxes buy internet now and if i have to go there i'm in and out in under 20 min.  that town will never change. it has grown but  it won't change.. there are some good people there.  the guy who runs the o'rielys. straight ace bent over backwards to help me and my wife get out truck fixed. and the guy who owns the auto mechanics shop just past the fourth street bridge.  bent over and pushed all his other jobs aside just to help me and my wife get out of there. nice place to raise your kids,up untill they reach about 10. then you better get them out. because either the police will harass them or the people will turn them into the same mean racial fools they are.

on Aug 27, 2009

As I pointed out in the article, I have lots of great memories of Lampasas and if you discount the run-ins with neighbors and lawmen, it was a good time in our life.  But no need to return.  The traffic circle is gone, the drive-in theater is gone, the shack we lived in is gone...they even put up a park at the spillway.  But the Dairy Queen is still there and the attitudes remain.  Nice place to visit...

on Aug 27, 2009

In case you are interested, there is a picture of the shack we lived in with the article "They're Tearing Down Tim Reilly's Bar".  It was a block north of the traffic circle, or maybe two...on the highway to Killeen.  It was right on the corner on the east side of the highway on the north corner of the cross street.

on Jan 04, 2010

As you note, not many navy Bases in small town America, so growing up I managed to avoid them (did spend many years in Nahfuk).

I have spent many years in small town America since then, but definitely post civil rights era.  Some of my fondest are of small town America - but then I did not run into that kind of prejudice.  just the normal stuff about "not being frum round heah".

on Jan 05, 2010

Doc, you and I have crossed the same streets a dozen times!  The Chief had two tours in Norfolk, that I was with him, and I have a story or two about that place as well.  

on Jan 05, 2010

I have a story or two about that place as well.

If I was as good a story teller as you, I could raise some eyebrows about that place as well.  It still holds a special place in my heart (and I made sure I paid extra attention to the offices of my agency that were based there).