OPINION
Published on August 24, 2010 By Big Fat Daddy In Misc

In past posts and comments I have been hard on teachers in general because many of them have gotten cross-wise with me over the years;  some have come near to wrecking a kid or two of mine, and, again, in general, I don't like teachers.  But that does not apply to all of them.  Over the years we have had some excellent teachers working with our kids and grandkids and I value them above gold.  A teacher in Missouri, a state whose education system left me grinding my teeth and mumbling to myself, completely turned my third son around and inspired him to do great work in school.  Mister Carol Day (yeah, and he was an ex-Marine, too!) completely undid all the damage caused by an over-educated, ex-hippie, over-bearing, wimp-butt teacher in California who deprived Toothache of his fifth grade education and then wanted to keep him another year so he could watch him fail some more...I guess...well, that isn't what I am writing about today so I don't want to get off on a tangent.  The point is, that there are many dedicated, effective, and noble teachers in the profession.  I just didn't see enough of them when I was in school and there still seemed to be a lack of them as my babies got to school age.  
At the school in Stillwell Park at Fort Ord, a Korean lady taught both HBW and Humbordt in Kindergarten two years apart and they both loved her and did very well.  Ms Pepper Dennis at Patch in Germany taught Toothache and MamieLady both in Kindergarten, two years apart, and was a great teacher.  I am sure that there were lots of others, but like I said, my strongest memories are of the officious, smarter-than-you types that I had battle after battle with.  I keep drifting back to the negative.  What I want to tell you about is a really great teacher, Stephanie Anderson,  who also happens to be a friend of ours. And I need to share a cute story where she plays a key role:
A few years ago MamieLady's oldest, Emma, was preparing to start First Grade.  They were excited that Emma would have Mrs Anderson as her teacher.  Their number three child, Hannah,  was watching all the purchases and preparations being made.  She wanted to share in the excitement but was feeling left out as it seemed to her that her big sister was getting all the attention.  She finally broke down and cried out that she needed "a backpack...pencils...new stuff...I need an Anderson !" So Emma had a great start on her education, and under Stephanie's guidance, she became an outstanding student and continues on in that vein.
Hannah's older brother, Grey, was also lucky enough to have Stephanie for a First Grade teacher, and he did very well there, also.
So this is a salute to one of the best, in my opinion:  a teacher who loves, inspires, encourages, and TEACHES her students.  She builds a foundation for their future learning.  Her students go forward with the tools they need to be confident scholars. 
This week school started here in the Swirl.  All the usual last-minute hubbub and flurry of activity took place:  new shoes, pencils, notebooks and backpacks.  And guess what?  This year Hannah got her Anderson.


Comments
on Aug 24, 2010

And I'm so very, very glad she did!! You are right, Mrs. Anderson is the best.  I feel very lucky that our elementary school has been so full of great teachers and they have a great principal, too.

One of the few problems I ever had with the school was over those ridiculous planners.  When Emma started 4th grade she was required to have a parent sign her planner everyday.  If she didn't get it signed, she would lose her only recess.  I understand the importance of good communication between the parents and teachers, but I knew I would forget to sign it sometime and I am not ok with a school punishing my kid for something I didn't do.  I even suggested they change the policy to a reward based program, like a treat for a signature instead of a punishment.  I had several less than pleasant phone calls and conversations about this with the teacher and principal and they stood firmly by their policy saying they couldn't make any changes without bringing it to the school board.  And, though I tried to remember that planner, unfortunately Emma had to miss a few recesses.

Well, fast forward to today and Grey has started 4th grade.  He still has to get his planner signed everyday, but every signature earns a sticker and 20 stickers earns a treat.  I'm a happy Mommy!  It's a great feeling to know that my concerns were listened to and something was actually done about it. 

on Aug 24, 2010

Mister Carol Day (yeah, and he was an ex-Marine, too!)

Johnny Cash - boy Named Sue?

I am very hard on teachers as well.  But I use to work for a local school district.  I know there are some great ones, and some waste of air space!  Fortunately most of my children's teachers have been the former as we did our homework and steered them to those teachers!  The few times when we were stuck with the wastes were due to a grade having all new teachers, or enough that the ones we knew were not good, so we took a chance on the unknowns.

Tenure is a bad thing.  It guarantees nothing, but a paycheck for the bad teachers.

on Aug 24, 2010

Johnny Cash - boy Named Sue?

yeah, i bet he was one tough marine, too!

i don't know about the rest of you, but i hate sending my babies back to school. my wife loves it, but i just cringe every time. i think they get dumber when school is in. i hate bedtimes and homework. i hate schedules and signing things. i'm no hippie, i understand the value of being smart, but i don't think that schools are where kids get smart. its where they learn to be like everybody elses kids. i got smart because my parents are smart. they were readers and set a good example. they paid attention to the world, and so did we.

i know kids need structured education. i just think that a lot of school time is wasted time. 

plus, i miss them. i don't leave for work till 11am most days, and i miss that time in the mornings with them. i get home from work just a little while before stupid old bedtime. i hate everything about school since i started school 31 years ago.

thanks for listening to me cry ya'll! 

on Aug 25, 2010

Mamie:  Congratulations!  It's good to see that schools actually pay attention and that thoughtful Mommies can evaluate and submit meaningful criticism with solutions attached.  Good for you.

Doc:  It's harder for military families who move a lot to stay on top of school staff.  A lot of times we had to play the hand we were dealt.  But you're right; nothing is more valuable than parents who are active and willing to get involved with their children's education.  And that especially includes which  teachers will administer that education. 

Jimbo:  Quit whining.  I've been listening to you cry about school all your life.  

Seriously, I've felt the same way myself.  The house sure seems empty when school starts.  Your kids are lucky to have such good parents who are actively engaged in monitoring their schools.  

From MamaCharlie:  I am reminded  every day just  what a privilege it is to be the Mom of such wonderful offspring and reading what you wrote in your answers above makes me especially proud.

Love Love Love Love Love

on Aug 25, 2010

One of the guys who works for us is called Karol, which is a Polish name. It's pronounced Carl.... at least that's what he insists.

on Aug 25, 2010

Doc: It's harder for military families who move a lot to stay on top of school staff. A lot of times we had to play the hand we were dealt. But you're right; nothing is more valuable than parents who are active and willing to get involved with their children's education. And that especially includes which teachers will administer that education.

True - I remember going to 6 schools before graduating.  My parents were lucky to get us on the right bus! (And yes, they did mess up one time. )

on Aug 25, 2010

"One of the guys who works for us is called Karol, which is a Polish name. It's pronounced Carl.... at least that's what he insists."

There was another famous male Carol...a serial rapist in the fifties.  California executed him back before the hippies took over...Carol Chessman.

Doc:  I always hated that feeling of winding up at the wrong school.

on Aug 27, 2010

It's good to hear a story about a teacher doing a great job. I had some great teachers in my early years. I also had some of those hippy types, later on toward the end, but I was too set in my ways for them to have any influence on my direction. I feel sorry for the kids that have to sit threw the "preach" and get too little of the "teach". The best teachers always will be the ones that show the doors, but let the student choose their own to open.

on Aug 28, 2010

Right there with ya, Nitro.  Thanks for stoppin' in.

on Sep 01, 2010

Jimmy - I love it when school is out for the summer.  For about 3 weeks.  I know it sounds awful to wish your kids were somewhere else for the day, but after those first 3 weeks I am out of fun ideas, the weather gets miserable hot and everyone gets cranky and mean.  And there's still 2 months to go...

My take on school has always been that the school can provide the needed structure that I am not gifted at, but I try to stay on top of what they are studying and correct any incorrect "preaching" they may get from their teachers (although I will say I think we have a pretty conservative district).  And we make our home a place where we want to learn new and interesting things just for the heck of it.  After that, I feel like school is the best place for them.  They are happier, friendlier, more cooperative people when they are in school.  I wish we could switch to year round.......