OPINION
Published on February 14, 2011 By Big Fat Daddy In Misc

Copy of mamacharlie at mt lemon inn

 

This picture was taken in front of the Mount Lemmon Inn, sometime in the summer of 1967;  MamaCharlie and I were dating then. We drove up the mountain from Tucson; it was a winding twenty-seven-mile drive up through three or four different levels of vegetation from desert floor to piney forests. There were rock formations and huge cacti and amazing views. It was a great drive and a great day together. We stopped at the Inn for lunch; I had a steak...I don't remember what Charlie ate...she didn't eat a lot back then. I talked to some local guys in the restaurant about going down the other side of the mountain and learned that it wasn't too good an idea without four-wheel drive. My immediate thought, stemming from the fact that I was an experienced Army truckdriver with lots and lots of miles off-road and was at that time an instructor teaching new Army drivers how to drive off-road, was to take off that way just to show them boys. But caution in favor of my GTO swayed me to go down the way we came up. It was one of many days we spent together in that magic summer. We met in April. We hit it off immediately. For the next few months I spent every day I could with her. I was stationed at Fort Huachuca; it was seventy-one miles from the front gate to the parking lot at Arizona Hall, the dorm at the University of Arizona where Charlie lived. I made the trip every weekend and sometimes three times a week. Some days I was so run down from the driving that I would fall across my bunk when I got off work and wake up, still fully dressed, the next morning when it was time to go back to work. But I was obsessed. I had to be with her every chance I got. We were married in October and looking back at it now, I don't know why we waited so long...we could have married after the first date and everything would have worked out just fine. Now it is over forty-three years later. I have retired and now spend every day with her...every day...and it still isn't enough, I am just as obsessed, just as crazy about her as I was in 1967. So this is my Valentine's story...

And by the way, the Mount Lemmon Inn would receive my highest recommendation as a day trip and lunch stop...but it burned to the ground in the early '70s, in a huge forest fire.


Comments
on Feb 15, 2011

This is a Valentines story for all to read!  Congratulations on you finding the perfect woman for you!  And thank you for sharing your stories with us.

And thanks for not taking the wrong side of the hill!

on Feb 16, 2011

There is something about people married in October.  We married on October 16th.  But unlike you, could not have married after the first date.

We were best friends first (tho my husband rolls his eyes and says "we were never friends."  Like he had this all planned out or something.   )

Call it what he wants, we were both dating OTHER people and hanging out talking all the time long before our first date.  But on that date, when the tenor of our relationship changed over dinner, I almost ran for the hills!  lol  He was way too intense and focused.  My first instinct was ... (remember Forrest Gump?) RUN TONYA RUN!!!  buwhahaha

Actually I do think I ran, but he caught me.

Good thing.  I totally made out on that deal.

All that to say...I love when you write about your wife.  It reminds me sometimes of things I occasionally take for granted, or things I don't think enough on.

 

 

 

on Feb 16, 2011

The original Inn had already burned down the first time we ascended the mountain, but it's a very beautiful drive up from Tucson and lovely at the top.  Highly recommended.

on Feb 17, 2011

Thanks for the comments, guys...I will try to come back and be more responsive when things calm down around here.