OPINION
Published on September 12, 2011 By Big Fat Daddy In Misc

 

I think that what I have to say may be misunderstood in the emotional atmosphere surrounding today's activities.  So let me start by saying that I am a red-blooded American boy;  my flag flew today on the front of my house, I went to church, I prayed for those who lost someone to that terrible day, I support our war efforts to eradicate the jihadist threat, I mourn and feel and bleed and I have backed it all up with twenty-six years of my own life.  Having said all that, I wish we didn't have to do this every year.

 

I don't want to forget 9/11;  I am proud of the heroes of that day who ran up the down staircase.  I don't want to forget the images of the jumpers, the collapsing buildings, the planes flying into them, or any of the other images of that day.  I just feel bad that instead of focusing on the heroes and their selflessness, the courage and sacrifices. we have to have an Irish wake every year. 

 

I don't begrudge those families their mourning and memories and I don't want to sound callous about it, but those things are and should be private.  And I am not saying the rest of us should forget what happened, either.  But I would like to change the perspective just a bit.

 

If it were up to me, I would celebrate the response our nation had for a few minutes after the attacks when every one of us felt like we had been personally attacked.  We were all Americans and we stood together.  We wept for those who were killed and we saluted the brave men and women of FDNY and NYPD and all they did and all they sacrificed that day,  not in a maudlin way but with joy and pride that there were so many who went willingly into harm's way to save their brothers and sisters.  And most importantly, I want the jihadists to make it their day of mourning.  I would hit them so hard and furiously that they would forever mark 9/11 as the biggest mistake they ever made...they would long for the pre-9/11 days when they were just considered criminals. 

 

But that's just me.  When I watched all the specials on TV, I got weepy just like anyone else.  But I felt really angry, too, knowing that jihadists are watching with glee at their great success;  they consider it a victory.  We should change their perspective...they should know that it was not a victory for them but the bell for the start of the first round.  They stepped into the ring with the longest-reigning, meanest, most successful heavyweight champion ever. 

 

We are not the "great Satan"...we are not a decadent society...despite the news from both coasts, this is still a generous, decent, God-fearing people standing on a blessed promised land.  The radical Islamists want to pitch their tents on the White House lawn and watch the nation's capitol burn.  That ain't gonna happen.  We will not allow it...God will not allow it..."God has given America to be free" -Patrick Henry


Comments
on Sep 12, 2011

I understand what you are saying, and agree.  We respect Pearl Harbor, but we celebrate D-Day, The Battle of Midway, the Phillipines, VE Day and VJ Day.  December 7th is a day of quiet reflection for the ones we lost.  So should 9-11 be.

on Sep 12, 2011

Thanks for "getting it" , Doc.

on Sep 13, 2011

I'm with you.

Very well said.

I didn't watch a single thing on tv, or listen to any media on 9/11.

And here is something really uncharitable.  I get tired of seeing all those weeping widows year after year.  It makes me contrast them to the military wives I know who lost a husband while serving. 

Except they didn't typically get a bunch of money, don't get to cry about it on tv evey year, and feel exceptionally self-righteous about what their family was forced to sacrifice.  And don't even get me started on all the coverage the "children of 9/11" get....

Is it important?  Sure.  And the occasion should be given proper respect.  But it's not the worst thing that coulda happened.  And it certainly won't be the last.

I know that's mean.  And I probably don't think that way 11 months of the year.  But come September....

on Sep 13, 2011

A lot of people died on 9/11 that had nothing to do with the attack.  Old folks died in bed, dumbasses ran their pickups into each other, hard working moms and dads slipped up on the job, and who knows what else...those losses were just as devastating to their families as the deaths in the towers or DC or PA were to theirs. 

on Sep 13, 2011

BFD,

Just about word for word, I feel the same way you do about the tragedy of 9/11, the deaths, the response, the heroes, the families, and all.

We respect Pearl Harbor, but we celebrate D-Day, The Battle of Midway, the Phillipines, VE Day and VJ Day. December 7th is a day of quiet reflection for the ones we lost. So should 9-11 be.

So should 9-11 be.

I agree, however, as long as the "War on Terror" exists, there won't be just a day of quiet reflection.

People have to do their thing and it gets built up.

This year we had 3 days of non-stop TV coverage. Quite truthfully, like Tova, we turned it off. It was too much.

 

 

 

 

 

on Sep 13, 2011

Lula:  Yep.  Thanks for reading.  As long as it sells papers or gathers an audience, we will be treated like the greatest tragedy ever.